Showing posts with label naked party. Show all posts
Showing posts with label naked party. Show all posts

Saturday, 13 October 2012

this is how john and i spend the days

london
John has free bus pass so that is how we have been spending time , going on buses. 

We went to a naked party in archway, and took the number 4 bus from waterloo. i made a mistake chosing that bus because it went all over the place going as far north as seven sisters before swinging back down to archway. took us ages. like 70-80mins. 

anyway during the party someone there told us we could have taken the 91 that ends at trafalgar square, and it would be quicker too.
Afraid he was wrong. 91 do not go to archway. there is,it seems, no better route but by tube from my place to archway. another reason why that place is not really a good place to stay, as the transport links are so poor. haha. speaking from my perspective of course. 

 Added. 15.10.12 i have since found out the best bus route is 88 to camden and then 134 to archway.

(Added.14.10.12 i was reading what i wrote, and realise it is all very from my point of view.haha. of course the place is highly desireable, as it is in highgate, a posh area and the houses there are big. the one we were in has 3bedrooms, large lounge, kitchen, dining room, and a garden with jacuzzi. and it overlooks wooded areas. the house must be worth a bomb. haha. 
but i like living where i am in central london and would not exchange it. to me a garden and large house is not a recommendation. so much work to upkeep a garden, and so much cleaning to do with a large house. haha. )

it has v good connections by bus to the city of london.

and even though we have been to that house before, we still got lost. ah makes me realise not everyone is that fortunate as me to live so centrally. most have to live far out and miles from the nearest tube station, and no buses running near them.

that was yesterday night(friday) 

today we decided to get the bus to peckham where there is the lidl, asda, and aldi supermarkets to check the prices. 

not really that cheap prices, only the aldi has cheap toilet paper. john bought a umbrella for £5 in asda, and i saw there were umbrellas with trimedges like the one i found which i like very much. they cost £10. 

i really like these trim edged umbrellas, even though they are women umbrellas. 

long ago we had a lamb shish kebab at a cafe near the tesco in peckham. and we went back again to check the prices, thinking it cannot be as cheap or as nice now after so many years. 

the small lamb shish kebab is £3.90, before it was £3.60. and though the lamb pieces were smaller it was still very delicious. the bread was smaller and the salads are not packed into the bread but otherwise it is still very nice and good value. the lamb ws the same price as the chicken kebab, yet lamb is so much more expensive. john and i shared a small kebab. but i am sure we could easily eat the big kebab at £5.50 and have a skewer of lamb for each. 

generally, shopping here would have to be selective. if i want toilet paper (12pack for £1.89)or mushy peas 300mg for 4p. i wold go to the aldi. and if tesco is not giving 50p veg, than aldi is good for veg. i got a huge savoy cabbage for 49p there. and frozen corn 1kg for 99p. 
I got powdered skim milk from asda, 454mg for £1.68. tesco is £1.15. tesco's is a refill bag, whilst the asda is a big tin. so this is not a good buy at all. i got lots of tins to put my milk powder in. 

u have to have a good idea of the quantity and price before u come here, and bring a calculator too. these cheap supermarkets are not serious competition to the big players like tesco, sainsburys etc. 


and i got  horlick 500mg for £2 from asda , saves me 70p if i bought in elsewhere. 

asda do £2.50 a kg pork which is good to know if i ever want to replenish by pork diet. 

without any reductions, when it can be £2 a kg, the usual price of the basic pork in my area is £3.19 a kg. 

other than that there were not really any real bargains in these cut price supermarkets in peckham. 

my road was being resurfaced and for some time the buses c10 and 88 which runs near me has been diverted. but it is now back to normal which is good news for us. 

Life has its petty upsets, like my service charges being wrongly printed out by the computer, missing out some items so that the total did not add up. i got onto the phone to scold them and they send me a new account. 

the bill is about £1000 a year. it was a big jump from last year, about £200-300 extra because of the  computer system being revamped. and after paying so much about £400 my share that computer fxxk it up by giving me a account that do not add up. 

these computer people have been fxxking everyone for a long time. so many times after very expensive work, the system crashes and causes more trouble than before using the old system. 

ah well, i guess that is modern life for you. 

during this period we have been to the naked sex club in soho, and that was very nice even though we have been 3-4times there. some places gets boring if u go there many times, but not this one.

i met a guy and had a great time kissing and playing and then afterwards saw him at the bar and he said we have met before. 

i could not remember , but he then recalled that we met in another naked club in january. and i did remember him. 

so it seems all the naked guys are ending up in this naked club sooner or later.

there are still lots of new guys to meet though. there was a hunky saudi arab who told me he is out to his family who are not religious and so accept him. he is of the opinion that everyone even in the uk do not live open lives. 

i thought of saying gay people can be gay openly and live exclusively gay lives here, and we do, i do, but of course we may still not be out to our family. so he may be right that even the openly gay guy living his gaylife in london may be hiding his sexuality from his friends and family in his hometown. 

 There are not many clubs like this giving such good value for money. we went just before 7pm and got in for £6 with free drink and free cloakroom and still have all the fun as those who came later and who paid £7.

the naked party in archway we went to yesterday was a social one, so no hanky panky. there was a hot tub, and we contributed vegetarian food. 

it did remind me how nice naked parties are when there is some hanky panky and orgy going on. haha. we need something like this to remind us of it and not make us take orgies for granted. 

must find more guys giving naked parties with orgies. 

Sunday, 30 September 2012

oral history

london
We all know of how beliefs are based on oral history... which is what the religious books are based on. 

but oral history can be meddled with.
take for eg this one which i read in the TAles of the 
Arabian nights

Two women belonging to one man conceived on the same day, and were delivered, one of a boy, the other of a girl, at the same time, and in one apartment. The female infant died, when each laid claim to the male child. The magistrates, unable to decide between the mothers, referred the decision to the just vizier; who, on hearing the circumstances, commanded two eggs to be brought, and the contents to be drawn out without breaking the shells; after which he ordered them to be filled with milk from the breast of each woman. This being done, he placed the shells in separate scales, and finding one outweigh the other, declared that she whose milk was heaviest must be the mother of the male child; but the other woman was not satisfied with this decision, and still affirmed she was the mother of the boy.

The vizier, vexed at her obstinacy, now commanded the infant to be cut in two; when she, whom he had said was the mother, fell into agonies, and besought its life; but the other was unmoved, and assented to the death of the child. He then ordered her to be severely punished, and committed the boy to its afflicted mother. On being asked on what proofs he had grounded his decision, he replied, "On two: the first, because the milk of a woman having produced a male child is always heavier than that of the mother of a female infant: the second, because the pretended mother consented to the boy's death; and I supposed it impossible for a woman to agree to the destruction of her offspring, which is a part of herself."

from vol 4, story of the bang-eater and his wife.

Doesn't it sound familiar? i know it as the judgement of solomon. 

Well, it looks like this is a old tale that has been attributed to different people according to the whim of the story teller. 
i daresay there must exist another version attributed to christ, or to mohammed, or to buddha except that those versions were not written down or if they were they are not found. 

there are some tales that are classics. 

i wonder if the fairy tales we read in grimms fairy tales have this origin as well. 

they are stories told round fireplaces in winter to amuse folks and the tales are re written and altered to suit the audience.

it would not surprise me to learn that the stories in the bible or other religous books are well known tales told and embellished down the ages as favourite stories in the repetoire of the story tellers.

john and i went to camden market yesterday and we were very pleasantly surprised at how nice it is. 

we thought it is a tourist trap, but it isn't. no wonder i hear tourists say they like going there.

u can buy hoodies for £5, cheaper if u buy two. that is a v good price.

and the market has expanded beyond all recognition from my time. i havent been there for many years and there are now a vast number of shops.

we did not see them all even though we were there for about 3.5hrs. 

i met a black woman sitting in one of the benches who told me she lives nearby and go there often just to sit there to see the crowds and feel the buzz. 

she said it is much better than going to the museums or art galleries as what she sees is real life being enacted in front of her. 

and i found a hardware shop near the station that sells just the rubber hot water bottles without covers for £3. quite the cheapest price i have seen so far. 

i got a cover , so dont have to buy one with a cover. boots is selling those for about £7.

john and i went to a private naked party in south london in zone 4. we took the train from vauxhall, and john was pleased that it only cost £1.80 single using his oyster card. 

 we know the hosts and have been before. in fact it was quite some time since i was there but quite a number of guys there recognised me and remembered me. hmm, was i so outstanding? i am afraid i dont remember them but then i am not very good at remembering people.

haha, i did not even recognise this guy i was having sex with at the room upstairs when i saw him again downstairs afterwards. he reminded me of it and said to me i guess one face looks like another in the dark.... haha. and he said he forgives me. i laughed it off because it happens so often with me i have long ago stopped being embarrassed about it. haha. and thought thank goodness he is easy about it. 

it was not dark in the room where we had it off , but it is true i dont really look at the face , but at the body and cock when i am sexing someone. anyway it was an orgy with other guys so i did not really pay attention to their faces.

well, it is the fun of these orgies that u dont really have to recognise people. i think it better if you can forget that u know them, so u can pretend u have met them for the first time and everything about them is new and just live for the moment and enjoy their bodies and give and receive pleasure from them. 

at least that is how i view these orgies. no need to be shy or anything, just do what u like and dont care how you appear to others. haha. that is my take on it and if u do likewise u will enjoy yourself enormously. and another thing, try everybody who makes the approach to you. even if they are not your type. you might be pleasantly surprised. 

another day john and i went on the buses to explore london. apart from going to museums, or shopping, and looking at the touristsights ; which we are not that interested; there is surprisngly not a lot to do.

so here we have free bus passes and dont really have anywhere we really want to go.  

we ended up in the british museum and happened to see the Roman chalice depicting the fucking scene by two guys . it was very graphic showing the cock going into the arse. 

that part of the warren cup was not shown in the tv series about roman art that was shown recently. 

i am glad i saw it, all by accident. it was on the 3rd level, around the low gallery number 70 or so,u can see the pictures of it here


oh, just this morning AVG informed me to download the AVG2013 , to allow me to continue using AVG free for next year. rather nice of them to allow me to continue using it free. 

Added 2.10.12 my talktalk allows me to pay my line rental yearly at a discount. it is £9.50 a month instead of the usual rate of about £13 something. i renewed it today. 

Added. 1.10.12
Yesterday, john went to the church near me. we met some chinese boys outside that church 2wks ago when john was here and they told us about the church service on sunday. it is an evangelical church. 

i was not interested but when john told me they give free lunch for newcomers after the service, i decided i shall go and join john at 12.30pm when the service ends (it was 2hrs long!) and get the lunch. haha. 

it was quite a nice lunch , nasi lemak,though the rice was not coconut rice; later i was told that there might be laksa... and it costs £2.50 if u are a regular. 
sounds good, haha. i told the guy who informed us of it that i dont mind coming for the lunch if it is laksa. though for that price i doubt it is truely laksa.

anyway, we were seated with 3others, one of them is malaysian, and he had been before and had brought two girls, one singaporean, the other south korean, who were studying in his class in kings college.

there were lots of s.e.asian people, and some blacks. but not many whites. john was the only white i can see there. 

long ago, i attended a service there, it has a huge central hall with a glass roof which makes it a very nice venue. there were lotsof white people there then, but things have changed. and at one time, i used to see lots of blacks coming out after their service. so it looks like the congregation have changed over the years.

the pastor who sat with us, was malaysian, and in answer to john asking him who funds them, told us that in 1999, they bought the place for about £2million . they got a donation from someone who had a child studying in london and he attended for 4sessions and decided to donate one for one up to £280,000. so they raised £560,000  which they use as a deposit, and got a loan for the rest. and now they own theplace. they must have got rich backers to afford the mortgage.

it was a good move that. 

the people are really friendly and if i were a malaysian away from home, it  would be very appealing to join them and make friends with fellow malaysians and other races . pity there were no local white guys there. 

and of course these places are not gay friendly. i wonder if they will be so welcoming to us if they know we are gay. haha. that is what make me hesitate to get more involved. and it can get a bit tiring to hear these people keep on about how jesus has made them happier. 

i am not really into evangelical lifestyles. i dont like to tell people what is good for them. haha. so i wont make a good evangelical . 

but their lunches might make me visit them now and then. haha. just joking. if anything the sermon might make me come back if what john says is true.

john said the first half of the service was rather loud, because of the music . they were playing guitars and stuff. i prefer organ playing instead of drums. 

but he said the sermon was rather good, unlike catholic sermons. I find it is actually worth it to go to these  services for the sermons. i went to a mormon service in knightsbridge long ago, and the sermon was very good, and people come up and chat with you , unlike in a catholic church, which do not provide food . but as a catholic u are supposed to go every sunday so i guess the church dont  feel obliged to make it a attractive event . the church just say it is a sin not to go every sunday. haha. they have the perfect answer to everything they dont like, by saying it is a sin. this is not only confined to the catholic church. every religious order  do this. the jews , islam, etc etc. maybe the buddhists dont do it so much though they are all very strong on ritual and that is being strict about doing it right. 

i supposed it is a pleasant way to spend a sunday . 

the church has a mandarin service too, after the main one , and has a kids service and a creche. 

i daresay if i had not read conversations with god by neale walsch i too would be looking at these places for answers. but i know what life is all about and so i dont have to rely on a god prop. 





Friday, 29 June 2012

wettest june since 1860

london
I note this with mild curiosity. funny that i do not get the impression it was particularly rainy...nor cold. i dont notice it. i read of flooding in other parts of the country but in london i dont see it round where i live. 


and i hardly notice when it rains, because in my first floor flat, i dont hear it, and only when i happen to look out of the window, do i notice the furious rain lashing on the ground. 


Just goes to show that record events can pass over the person who actually live during that period and they do not notice it. 
until such times like this when i read it in the papers. i suppose that is what records are for, haha. so we can say, 'fancy that', 'well, i never' haha. 


today has been milder, 22C highest temperature, and cloudy. i like it, and when there was a fine misty rain when i left the gym, my last day there, i felt very happy, imagining all the dratty pollen being washed down to the ground and kept there. i dont know why grass want to keep shooting off those huge amounts of pollen every summer.it is in their nature... but they are damn pesky things. 


ya, today is my last day at my gym. boo hoo... not really!


I am glad to leave it as the gym is being renovated with the machines rearranged and all over the place. it is not a very restful place to work out. they are enlarging the space in preparation for the merging of the gym with the other branch in victoria. 


but after today, i shall not have my routine every morning to perform now. that circuit of gym-shower-library will be broken. i wonder what i shall put to replace it. 


Added. 9pm. I have got back from the supermarket foraging. i had intended to buy fruits for my naked party this sunday, but they were reducing these cakes , blueberry cheesecake £6 to 99p, walnut cake and lime/coconut cake 5" from £2.25 to .54p.so i bought them for the party. there will be about 11 people coming. 
there was a 1.3kg chicken reduced to 99p too and i bought that. I fancy making a curry out of it. 




its quite rare to get cheesecake reduced. the original price is rather expensive, dont you think?
i bought a gold blend roast coffee as well, now that i am not going to the gym and getting free coffee,(though they have stopped the coffee 2months ago, and only now am i buying coffee) i suppose i shall have to buy it now. haha. 
i thought i should give my guests the option of having coffee and tea. 
so i am all set for the party. 
only thing left is to clean the lounge. 


Added.30.6.12 9.30pm.i have cleaned the lounge and the kitchen. the lounge look great now, rather bare but clean. i removed all the clutter and put them in my bedroom. 
i might take this chance to sort out the clutter now packed in bags in my bedroom , and throw stuff away. 


i never knew how much cobwebs and dust the corners of the room can accumulate, even  found a spider, the longlegged kind. naturally i let it be. Spiders are good. 
I wonder where they go during winter when even though I am wrapped warm but since i dont have the heating on, my flat is cold, i am sure they cannot survive. maybe they move next door. haha.


Added.15.7.12 took me this long to add this. i noticed that the cheesecake was all gooey when we ate it at the naked party. so not many ate it and lots left over. i put it back in the fridge and we ate it over the next few days and i notice it was really very nice and firm... it seems it needs to be chilled so that the cheese is kept firm. hmm, that is a tip i hand to you guys. haha.